Articles – Page 9 – Debra Wallace

Jaw Clenching?

Jaw clenching. Ever find yourself doing this? After a dentist visit, I was asked if I grind my teeth at night and if I’m angry while I brush them. What??? I recently viewed statistics released by Covenant Eyes saying 70% of wives of men with …

Worth More than Rubies

Sharing a quote today written by Max Lucado in a recent Upwords devotional—because as betrayed women experiencing trauma, we all need to hear TRUTH about our VALUE! “Jesus’ love does not depend upon what we do for him. Not at all. In the eyes of the …

Do You Want to Get Well?

There is no doubting women who have experienced betrayal are victims. We often feel paralyzed and powerless. However, when we don’t let go of being “the victim”, God cannot heal us or use us for his best purposes. We don’t want to stay in a …

Tired of Helicoptering?

Heard of helicopter moms? 🚁 What about a helicopter spouse? Being a helicopter wife is common behavior for most betrayed women. We want to hover. Ask me. 🙋‍♀️ To be safe, we feel like we need to monitor our spouses whereabouts, 🚙 computer usage, 💻 …

Honor the Gift

The fact we are alive and still breathing is proof God still has a purpose for us.

Silence the Enemy

Put on the full armor of God. I’ll go one step further and say, “Never take it off!” Part of donning God’s armor includes buckling on the Belt of Truth. If you’ve been following me for very long, you may already know I am a …

Which Voice?

Temptation has a loud voice for a wife facing trauma from betrayal. It says, “Life is too hard. It doesn’t matter. Feel better now—find an escape. Give up because God doesn’t care, anyway.” Our Savior has a louder voice, if we are willing to listen. …

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