Tired of Helicoptering?

Heard of helicopter moms? 🚁 What about a helicopter spouse? Being a helicopter wife is common behavior for most betrayed women. We want to hover. Ask me. 🙋‍♀️ To be safe, we feel like we need to monitor our spouses whereabouts, 🚙 computer usage, 💻 …

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Which Voice?

Temptation has a loud voice for a wife facing trauma from betrayal. It says, “Life is too hard. It doesn’t matter. Feel better now—find an escape. Give up because God doesn’t care, anyway.” Our Savior has a louder voice, if we are willing to listen. …

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In the Stillness

I’ve been trying to consciously make an effort for solitude, silence, and stillness. The way to clearly hear God’s voice is when I’m still enough to listen.  In 1 Kings 19, evil men were in pursuit of Elijah. He was fearful and on the run. …

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Wholesome TV?

I’ve determined trying to find a wholesome TV 📺 show or movie 🎥 may be a thing of the past. Much of what we, as betrayed women have to choose from is usually triggering, too. I’ll be watching the Disney Channel and the next thing …

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Suffused with Grace

“God is good to one and all; everything he does is suffused with grace.” Psalm 145:9 MSG Wow! I love this verse—especially the word suffused: to spread through or over, as with liquid, color, or light. Do you feel His grace suffusing every fiber of …

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God’s Protection

“The Lord your God, who goes before you looking for the best places to camp, guiding you with a pillar of fire by night and a pillar of cloud by day.” Deuteronomy 1:33 NLT This is how Israelites traveled during exodus from Egypt. Can you …

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