Choosing to follow God and seeking Him must replace “winging it” in our own strength.
Read MoreNever Fear!
So how do we cope through betrayal or trials in life? By walking with Jesus— EVERY day, in His Word.
Read MoreDo You Want to Get Well?
There is no doubting women who have experienced betrayal are victims. We often feel paralyzed and powerless. However, when we don’t let go of being “the victim”, God cannot heal us or use us for his best purposes. We don’t want to stay in a …
Read MoreTired of Helicoptering?
Heard of helicopter moms? 🚁 What about a helicopter spouse? Being a helicopter wife is common behavior for most betrayed women. We want to hover. Ask me. 🙋♀️ To be safe, we feel like we need to monitor our spouses whereabouts, 🚙 computer usage, 💻 …
Read MoreBe Prepared with Anchor Verses
I love what I’m learning in my recent Bible Study, 40 Days Deeper: Perspective written by my friend, Caroline Collie. She encourages scripture memorization and calls verses ANCHOR verses. (Scriptures we can hold on to BEFORE a storm hits.) We need to always BE PREPARED, …
Read MoreRecognizing Abuse: The First Step
Does God hate divorce? I believe it’s because he hates the abuse which leads to divorce. Surely he is grieved by both, but make no mistake: An abusive marriage does not honor God, nor does staying in an abusive marriage. In the groups I facilitate, …
Read MoreDepending on God
Dear Newly Betrayed, You’re learning to be honest with yourself and in time, you’ll find ways to be honest with others about the struggles you face—even when no one you know can relate. As you grapple with trust issues, you’ll learn to depend upon God …
Read MoreFaithful and True
Photo courtesy of Jonathan Borba, upsplash Faithful and True. Don’t we love those words? Isn’t it what we desire most for our marriages? “I saw heaven standing open and there before me was a white horse, whose rider is called Faithful and True. With justice he …
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Finding True Rest
God offered rest to Israel, in the form of the Sabbath, but they wouldn’t listen. They rebelled against His perfect provision- repeatedly! (Isaiah 28:11-16) When God offers us something He knows we really need and we refuse it? It’s disobedience. Discussing it in The Breathing …
Read MoreReason for Celebration!
I find Jewish culture fascinating and follow a Jewish woman’s blog who has taught me so much. This week, Rachel Mankowitz shared about Tu Bishvat, the New Year of the Trees, which began last evening, and continues through today, January 28. Rachel says historically, this …
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