Not the Cause

One betrayed woman described her feelings like this:  “My husband and his lover are laughing and driving the car away while I’m being dragged behind by a rope.” Sounds like an accurate description. You know if you’ve been there. If anyone tells you you’re at fault, …

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Collecting Garbage?

Litter. Disgusting, right? While hiking on a familiar trail, I was glad I remembered to bring a grocery bag for collecting littered cans and bottles.  Shortly the bag was full- a reminder of how as women experiencing betrayal trauma, we’re often left holding someone else’s garbage.  …

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