Trying to Trust Again

Anybody remember the lyrics to Sheryl Crow‘s song, “The First Cut is the Deepest?” Here’s a few lines:  “I would have given you all of my heart But there’s someone who’s torn it apart And he’s taking just all that I had But if you …

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Practicing Lament

In the aftermath of yet another mass shooting—this time in Boulder, Colorado, I find myself grieving again for victims and families affected.  Today’s post may be appropriate as it addresses lament. I hope you practice it, taking time to grieve when you need to grieve. …

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Forget-Me-Nots

Don’t you just love the name of these delicate little flowers? I’ve forgotten a lot. In fact, forgetfulness has been holding my hand  for years. I refer specifically to a habit (I used to have) while approaching my locked car.  With my arms overflowing with …

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Addressing our Emotions

God equipped we humans to experience a spectrum of emotions so expansive we can’t even begin to list them all.  After betrayal, we feel a myriad of different emotions as well. Shock, denial, anger, scared, confused, panicky, relieved, sad/depressed, and hopelessness may be a few! …

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DARVO

There’s a saying in wives care groups: “Knowledge is Power”. What comes to mind, is the term DARVO. Ever heard of it? According to Wikipedia, “DARVO is an acronym used to describe a common strategy among abusers:  DENY the abuse ATTACK the victim for attempting …

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Is There Life After Guido?

Once upon a time I worked for a small animal vet. One “small animal” patient happened to include Guido, a 180 pound Commodore/Great Pyrenees cross.  My one and only encounter with Guido did not end well. Although he was tied to a wall so I …

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