Don’t you just love the name of these delicate little flowers? I’ve forgotten a lot. In fact, forgetfulness has been holding my hand for years. I refer specifically to a habit (I used to have) while approaching my locked car. With my arms overflowing with …
Read MoreAddressing our Emotions
God equipped we humans to experience a spectrum of emotions so expansive we can’t even begin to list them all. After betrayal, we feel a myriad of different emotions as well. Shock, denial, anger, scared, confused, panicky, relieved, sad/depressed, and hopelessness may be a few! …
Read MoreIs There Life After Guido?
Once upon a time I worked for a small animal vet. One “small animal” patient happened to include Guido, a 180 pound Commodore/Great Pyrenees cross. My one and only encounter with Guido did not end well. Although he was tied to a wall so I …
Read MoreTrials: Blessings in Disguise?
Years ago, driving home every Thursday night after meeting with my wives care group, I’d hear Laura Story’s song, “Blessings”. It must have been on a loop to faithfully play week after week. Read the lyrics— We pray for blessings, We pray for peace, Comfort …
Read MoreResponsibility
So how do we lead blameless lives—to live with integrity? To take responsibility for ourselves? In Psalm 101, David talks about being careful to lead a blameless life. He does so by avoiding certain things. David: Puts nothing vile before his eyes (vs.3) Stays away from …
Read MoreThe First Valentines Day
The first Valentine’s Day after my husband and I were separated, I didn’t know how to feel. But imagine my surprise when I saw a bouquet of red roses. It wasn’t from him, it was from my battle buddy. Perhaps she sensed it would be …
Read MoreTen Reasons Why a Support Group Will Help You Heal from Betrayal
Maybe you’ve been hesitant to join a wives care support group? After I discovered sexual betrayal in my marriage, the last thing on my mind was joining a group! “Who would ever want to sit in a circle, share their sad story, and listen to …
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